Relationship

10 Ways To Treat A Woman Right

1. Honesty is key.
There is no fancy way to do this. Just. Be.
Honest. If you’re into her, then tell her
you’re into her. Don’t play that “I’m-
trying-to-come-off-cool-and-macho-so-
I’m-gonna-play-like-I’m-not-that-
interested-so-she-falls-for-me” crap.
That shit’s lame. (And let me tell you, any
girl that falls into that passive-aggressive
play is not in the right state of mind to
be in a serious relationship, especially
with you.) Stop it. If you’re not that into
her, then just be honest! Let her know
you’re not as interested as she might be
and spare her the run-around of
awkward texts you’re trying to avoid
sending. Don’t be that guy. Nobody likes
that guy.
2. Maintain Good Communication
I personally feel this one is the MOST
important of all. I can’t stress this one
enough. Men have this habit of speaking
through a series of grunts, sighs, head
nods, or eyebrow raises while their
arms are folded over their chest
listening to women talk. I’m almost
positive there’s not a man out there who
enjoys listening to the words she
says,?!” – But there’s a reason she’s
asking, guys. She’s not inside your
heads, She doesn’t know what you’re
thinking and if you are listening to her, a
lot of the times, you’re not showing any
indication it got through. Silence isn’t
the answer she wants. She wants a
“yeah, I got you” or “no, I don’t agree
with you.” She knows YOU don’t want to
do anything that’ll trigger “conversation
over time,” but if you didn’t agree with
something she said and you held it in…
you’re gonna have the same discussion
with her again in the future. So save
both of you the stress and speak up.
3. Don’t be lazy.
No one’s asking you to solve all the
world’s problems and be superman, but
at least handle your shit. Take care of
yourself, manage your money, be
responsible at work. Basic. Don’t expect
a woman with a perfect body if you
have flaws of your own, don’t expect a
woman to be independent and make
her own money when you don’t have
your own, and don’t expect a woman to
“put out” for you when you ain’t got the
moves yourself. Be who you want to
attract. No, she doesn’t want no scrub.
4. Show Appreciation.
So you might not be the best at
remembering birthdays or anniversaries,
but there are other ways to show you
appreciate her. Sometimes, she can be
wrapped up in the things that are going
on in her life and be so overwhelmed
that her laundry’s backed up, or the
dishes haven’t gotten to… her dog has
been cooped up at the apartment… I’m
not saying to become a “man-ny” for
her, but doing something as small as
taking one item off her to-do list will
make her eternally grateful. Show her
you appreciate her time by freeing it up
for her. By doing that, you’ve got more
time to be together, she’s got more
energy and hey-oh. Bring on the wine.
5. Be Observant.
Women love men that are observant
about their woman’s needs, take for
instance she tells you about her activities
during the day, and you find a way to do
some of those activities for her before
she gets home, she will be eternally
grateful and will appreciate you even
more.
6. Respect Her
We know you have two sides. You have
your “family” side and you have your
“boo” side. We don’t mind either of
them but know when it’s appropriate to
be one or the other. Communicate with
her before you bring her around your
friends and family. She knows they
might not always be the most “kosher”
group. Some girls are totally okay with
vulgarity, sports talk and “guys being
guys” and some girls aren’t comfortable
with it. Know which girl your girl is
before you bring out the “bro” and
respect both sides, because your friends
don’t want to be pegged as assholes,
either.
7. Give Her Support.
Hmmmm I know, Not through your bank
account. (If she’s looking at you to
support her financially without any
interest of accumulating her own source
of income, it’s probably not the best
grounds to start a relationship.) Support
her beliefs, her passion, her ambitions…
her goals. Be supportive of the things
she decides to pursue be it
professionally or personally. Don’t
diminish what dreams she has even if
they’r

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